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Psychic Energy Vampires
I've steadily used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe an individual who extracts energy from others with the intention to survive in their world. Now we have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nonetheless it is not normally a aware endeavor.
Narcissistic motion is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator will not be usually aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator often feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic persons are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It's really quite simple. Just be aware of how you feel round totally different people. Start making mental notes. Some individuals will depart you feeling completely happy, energized, or nurtured. Others will go away you feeling drained, tired, depressed, offended or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you most of the time than they are likely an energy vampire. Chances are you'll enter the interaction or dialog feeling good about something and during the course of the conversation you are transformed into feeling bad. For example: Say you just acquired a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go dwelling from work and you might be high with excitement and share the great news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't obviously merciless or condemning. He even said "good for you!" But one way or the other you feel that you haven't been heard and that he doesn't really share in your excitement. Actually it appears more that he may care less. You're feeling a plummet in your energy and all of a sudden you are not feeling very excited anymore. It's possible you'll reply by saying "No I have not seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to concentrate on the bottle asking you if you're certain you didn't take it because you might have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was reduce very short. In actual fact if you wish to celebrate in any respect you'll need to call a buddy who truly cares about you and your good news. But by now it's possible you'll not feel much like celebrating. It's possible you'll feel that your promotion really isn't that big of a deal after all. Particularly for the reason that individual closest to you doesn't appear to think it is.
Everytime you really feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether or not from a buddy, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a spouse or partner, chances are you'll be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn't essentially a psychic individual but quite someone who preys on the psychic energy field around a person.
I am very sensitive and read energy quite simply now. But in the past, I didn't know enough about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was going on with me and why I usually felt drained when round lots of people, or sure people especially. Now I'm pretty aware of what's going on around me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet a variety of psychic vampires who appear to be just normal individuals going about their business. However here is what I notice. These type of individuals seem to need something from me. I discover the conversations tend to be one sided the place they're doing all of the talking and I'm doing all the listening. There isn't a true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the dialog, I feel as if I'm not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they proceed their dialog as if I have not said a word.
When I ask myself what the intention of these folks is perhaps I see they're looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to consider something. If I start to feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and depart the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed each other. We share energy. Considered one of us may be feeling down and the other can encourage us and say things to help us which can bring us up. Other instances we are the ones serving to and encouraging the other. It's a give and take energy exchange that's mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there is no give and take, only take. They have no energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He does not have an inner life and isn't spiritually related to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning the right way to go within and cultivate his own internal garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to manufacture most of what we need from within if given the correct vitamins and building blocks. However let's say a person eats nothing however junk meals after which takes quite a lot of vitamins. He's relying on this exterior substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a cellular level. If he really wished to be healthy he would learn that he wanted to cleanse out all of the toxins that have been accumulating from years of bad eating and then begin taking in high nutrient dense foods to rebuild his body.
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